Long distance relationships are ones where two or more people are connected together in their emotional and sexual association but operating between distant places for example One in a given country and the other in another one. Such relationships were very hard to manage in terms of money, emotional support, sexual satisfaction, among others over […]
The single mum’s lens Part 3- Jacobs’ letter:  Spoken words can be adulterated, they can be inflated and sliced; but not so with written words. They sound new every time you read them. You hear the author’s voice and tone; stronger than when he is seated right next to you. I keep Jacob’s letter to me […]
Quality time is giving someone your undivided attention. I don’t mean sitting on the couch watching television. I mean sitting on the couch with the TV off, looking at each other and talking, and giving each other your undivided attention. For some people, quality time is their primary love language, and if you don’t give […]
The single mum’s lens: Part 2- Humanity is not loyal If you have not walked in my shoes, dealt with half the issues I have handled, and kept awake crying over the things you wish you could change; you have no right whatsoever to criticize me. Often times I wondered how I became a topic of […]
The single mum’s lens: Part 1- chronicles of my sweet Jacobs When I start to describe our physical connection, a whole month of twenty four- hour narration is but the beginning of the introduction to the tale. Until recently, I wailed in lonesomeness each time I educed those times. Well, I may say I’m over him, […]
Every girl has a dream, and there seems to be no better dream in a girls’ mind than her seeing a serous man proposing to her. Though the timing and how to propose matters for a long lasting success to be attained, the man ought to play the ‘love cards’ right. Proposing requires some romantic creativity on the side of a […]
He was a tall guy, handsome and intelligent, a guy everyone could die for. Wasn’t into him coz he wasn’t my type of guy  at the beginning, this was because I couldn’t handle a guy like him. A dream to every girl at campus. His behaviors sometimes scared me to death. He knew when he […]
Lately I have been thinking through the work of the famous writer Steven Covey in his book the 7 Habits of Highly effective people and I thought his ideas may help instruct us through the basics of love. Actually this was supposed to be counselling material for those guys who are just about to graduate […]