“I have stayed with her for about 3 years, no sex but she has been chewing my dime. She keeps telling me there is time for it and the time is not specified. Is she still my girlfriend or I should drop her and look for another one,” Dickson who looked worried complained.
Just like Dickson, many believe in the theory that “the more you give, the more you are loved”.
Although intimate love emanates from knowledge and giving, it does not come overnight but over time. Dickson’s girlfriend might be taking her time.
The intensity many couples feel before marrying is usually great affection boosted by commonality, chemistry, and anticipation. These may be the seeds of love, but yet to sprout.
Love should be based on fun and given time, Mr. or Ms. Right appears.
If someone asks you to do or say something that isn’t in your nature, that isn’t true love. Although love does involve compromises between partners, someone who is in love with you will never ask you to change who you are in order to be loved.