Men, when women fall in love, they fall in love deeply and are always committed to that relationship to get the best from it. But on the other hand, we quickly lose interest in the relationship, and most women, when they do, try to show you signs, but some men don’t pick up the signs. Ladies love a man who is trustful and means his words always. So, men, stop promising what you can’t fulfill. It’s better than not said; you will be killing the trust.
We ladies love to know the truth, no matter how hard it is. We love respect. We love being cared for and pampered, but this also applies to men. Ladies have to always reciprocate in the same way. In most cases, if you are not trustworthy, caring, and not clear on yourself, you will always receive disappointments, and you will always say you’re dating the wrong people. But you yourself as a man, you’re the problem.
Not forgetting that some ladies have their friends who always have shares in your relationship with your woman, so they will advise her, and I know here you can tell what kind of advice they will give. If they are toxic, they will crash the relationship to zero.
And even the lady will move and get another man when you’re still waiting for the situation to come down. We ladies, we move on first. Learn that from me.
So now here are the signs. Let me break them down for you:
Decreased Communication: If she becomes less responsive to calls, texts, or messages, as in she leaves you on blue tick and she is busy online like here on X replying to comments on her tweets, Bambi, just run, don’t look back, start thinking of plan B.
Lack of Interest: If she starts to show disinterest in spending time together or participating in activities that were once enjoyable for both of you. You call her out or even at your place, and she makes excuses, playing on your that she is busy, Nonya ekidaako, Bambi.
Emotional Distance: If she starts to emotionally distant or detach herself from you, as in showing less affection and intimacy than before. You want to smash, but she isn’t interested at all. She lost your feelings, Mukulu, move on.
Increased Irritability: If she starts to become easily irritated or frustrated with you, leading to more frequent arguments or conflicts. Every two days you engage in a quarrel that has no ground, you have lost it, dear.
Focus on Independence: If she starts prioritizing her independence and personal time over the relationship, seeking more time alone or with friends. Just know you’re a stress to her now, and she is avoiding you for good. So it’s better you carry yourself on.
Avoidance of Future Plans: If she starts to avoid discussing or making future plans with you. You bring your plans, but she is less interested in that conversation. Just know you’re losing it, Bambi. It totally indicates a lack of long-term commitment.
As I conclude, in a relationship, it’s important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner if you notice these signs. I advise removing friends from issues in your relationships.
All you have to know is that those we call friends are sometimes our worst enemies. Remember, understanding each other’s feelings and concerns is crucial for a healthy relationship.