Every single day, a husband should tell his wife, “I love you. I appreciate you. You’re the best thing that ever happened to me.” Ana a wife should do the same for her husband. Your relationship would improve immensely if you’d simply start speaking kind, positive words and blessing your spouse instead of cursing him or her.
One of the main reasons for deficiencies in a relationship is because husbands are willfully or unwittingly withholding the words of approval women so desperately desire.
If you want to see God making wonders in your marriage, start praising your spouse. Start appreciating and encouraging her. Many women today are depressed and feel emotionally abused because their husbands do not bless them with kind words.
If your relationship has fallen into a rut, take immediate steps to reverse the pattern of behavior that leads to boredom. Inject new energy into your relationship by doing fun-filled things together, taking more quality time for your partner and recovering some of your lost relationship magic.
After committing themselves to their relationship, partners often get too serious, and stop having fun or playing together. Lighten up and make your relationship fun again!
Communicate with your partner. Talk about the changes you’d like to make, or the issues you see and how they’re affecting your relationship. Devote some time to problem solving as a couple. Keep the discussion upbeat and positive. Focus your discussion on a few simple changes you want to make, not on what’s wrong! And create a sense of optimism.
Avoid blaming your partner, or punishing him/her, and don’t be critical. Being critical only makes one partner feel good, but puts the other down. And it won’t help. Take responsibility for your part of the problem. That will help!
Work as a team to improve your relationship.
Seek the help of a relationship professional who will work with both of you together to solve the relationship problems and help you to re-design your relationship, and make it better than ever. A little time spent investing in your relationship can save you lots of heartache later on.